![]() ![]() When the constant state of my being is love, then the need for constant input disappears and the constant input is zero. Where there is love, there is no need for explanations. The most stable family, where I don’t have to explain myself. When zero input is needed, it means that it is the most stable relationship, We can remove the incompatibility, by understanding this principle of entropy. From where does this love come? From a pure heart from a truthful, genuine heart.ĭistrust kills a relationship, but in families where we are taught to love, to sacrifice, to accept and to remain pure, we are able to let go of everything. Tolerance may be a great virtue, but when you feel, “I can’t tolerate this person’s mistakes,” love will iron out everything, so that it is okay. The conclusion is that it is the love that you have in your heart that is the input that stabilises relationships. It is taken for granted that you accept each other with love. In contrast, when there is love amongst all, and when acceptance is there, then you do not have to go on offering ice cream or going to some paradise vacation spot to patch things up. ![]() That is the input that stabilises relationships. The conclusion is that it is the love that you have in your heart In situations where you have to give constant emotional input it is a broken family, even though you may be together. In a family, if you have to tolerate each other, then constant input is required. You will get hurt in the process, no doubt, and there will be a lot of energy consumption from your side, but if you are prepared for it the relationship will improve. You may even have to buy them a Mercedes one day, if you can afford it! At the same time, it is our business to love each other, whatever the cost. When constant input is required every time there is a fight or an argument with a friend or family member, you will require greater input each time. We need input to stabilise any relationship, to iron out the wrinkles or differences, so that we don’t harbour and store things forever.īut do we have to do this every time we make a mistake? Do we have to offer another person ice cream or candy to always pacify them? This would mean a constant investment to maintain a relationship. We keep harbouring things, and one day what we harbour explodes, unless we do something about it. These inner chambers become more and more disorganised as we store more and more, just like the books and clothes in our room. We let things build up in our inner chambers. In human relationships, we have interactions day after day and these relationships also become higgledy-piggledy. It reflects the instability of a system over a period of time if there is nothing to stabilise it. The second law of thermodynamics says that entropy increases with time. So entropy is the degree of disorder or randomness in any system. So that we don’t harbour and store things forever. We need input to stabilise any relationship, to iron out the wrinkles or differences, ![]() To keep things in order requires constant energy input. Now the room looks cleaner than before, until again you start bringing more books and things, and again the system disintegrates and becomes disorganised. You put each book where it belongs, wash your laundry and make your bed. You get frustrated with the mess and clean everything up. This is a disintegrated system the system has gone haywire. The rest of your room is also in a disorganised state: your clothes are here, your socks are there and your towel is hanging somewhere. They all pile up on a small table in your room, so now there will be enough clutter on your table. Your girlfriend gives you magazines, and you have music CDs. You bring a book home from the library, and then your father gives you another book as a gift. The Science of Spirituality Entropy in Human Relationships PATEL explains how the second law of thermodynamics plays out in our relationships, leading to disintegration and breakdown, and shares with us the inputs needed to overcome entropy, bringing stability and harmony. ![]()
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